Broker Heart is not easy for most people and not easy to face but the level is differed to each people. I took 2 months to wake up from the truth that I have lost her. To avoid the next broken heart, I do some tools (anticipation) to reduce my feelings for the next broken heart (I do not expect it), because it is a mystery, we can say, this is my last broken heart.
I’ve read some magazine which talking about the broken heart, to find the signal if your dear will leave you, with mathematic approach (hahaha) I recommend you to know these signals. At most cases, the first signal are OPEN CONFLICT, then she or He changes his looking; forget to call and maybe you lose his romantic affair or relationship. You are change, darling! You think that the affair doesn’t progress, negative!
Knowing the signals before you give 1001 percent of your love.
Conflict
No affair or relationship with conflict. If no conflict means the affair isn’t good but destructive conflict is the worst. This is the first signal you need to know. Any affairs need positive conflict; we call Constructive Conflict, good for your relationship. Constructive conflict will make your affair to equilibrium, understanding each other and you’re the one.
Check it out! If the conflict because of unnecessary issues such as choice of clothing, or any mistake words you said, or any behavior you did, keeps in mind, the affair will go to hell.
Remembering at any time
Bryan Adams said on his song, I remember all you move, I remember your smell, I remember you.
My friend is now falling in love. They are separated by distance and it is not big deal to them. They took at least 2 hours talking via phone line for unnecessary topic. It is great and good indicator that she/he is always fall in love with you and miss you so much..
The problem is when no incoming call from his/her. If she/he is busy or work, it is okay. But if he/she forgets to call you for many time, think that his/her love on you is diminished. You need to find out, talk to your dear, maybe you do critical mistake or you have loss his/her love. But you need to know, his/her love on you is disappear slowly.
I was charmed when she let her hair down, used sexy dress and her smile in the beginning. I can say that I love her more and more, if she does what I like. And question is if she change his look, do I love her as same as before?
Most people believe when your love changes her looking such as cutting her hair with different style without share with you, or she changes her clothing, appearance and more, physiologically, people wish new situation, new environment, and maybe new affair.
Becomes more Criticize
She never commented if I did mistake, she didn’t say something when I wearied any clothing she dislike. But now she is fussy and do critic for any mistake I made. At most case, she doesn’t like any of my behavior. At this point, destructive conflict will happen but if you are smart, this signal determines that her love on you is dismissed.
Not Show her Romantic Behavior or intimacy on you.
Sex means two bodies are interesting each other and started when desire arisen. It was walking together, but now he is lazy to walk out with you, he hasn’t any intimacy on you. In worst case, he doesn’t show his sex willingness with you, wake up, this signal sign positive meaning, you will lost him in near.
Find your best condition to talk, to find the problem. Don’t heritage to say, I still love you, comeback to me, I need you. But you should care the realize, if find any reason to hold the relationship, do something to save it, otherwise, if you have no reason to save the affair, you are smart, you know exactly. Don’t let love kills you!
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