admin | February 11, 2009 | 1:51 am
Reproductive health and fertility is usually started as hot topic and new attention when after marriage. Catholic Church launched wedding course before woman and man live as a young family in order to invest knowledge and information how to care a family, how to organize family and how to care kids, reproduction knowledge and anything necessary for young family. We talk about reproduction organs, knowing our health in order to getting pregnant without problems.
In modern living, information about reproduction organs, pregnant, reproduction organs healths are easier to collect. Most people will open their eyes about reproduction organs just when they decide to get marriage. In fact, when we are living in health environments, we have no worry about health. But half of us are living without standard health, and sometimes, people think reproduction organ would be learned just before they live as wife and husband.
My neighbor took 4 years to pregnant since their marriage, but another neighbor has already 2 kids for the same range. Unhealthy behavior in the past is the most important effect for reproduction organs, we say fertility. People then put woman as the top of the top suspect behind the problems in fertility.
Here are some information, rich information for husband and wife (especially wife, candidate mom) about reproductive system in order to become understanding wife (mom) and husband (dad).
Say no to cigarettes and alcohol
First, avoid cigarettes and alcohol. According to research, drinking alcohol will reduce the opportunity for pregnant women to 50 percent. Similarly with smoking, which not only affect fertility, but also accelerate menopause for the time, in other word, Consume cigarettes and alcohol will make infertility and also to enter menopause faster than natural condition.
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admin | January 22, 2009 | 10:37 pm
Young female questioned me, Hey Jacky, Do you have a potential financial to buy a home if I marry you? I just smiled and didn’t answer the question. I thought not twice but many times for the question, I guessed the question came from outside but actually she stroke me with good question, a question will change my future, arrange my mindset and wake me from old tradition. I said the answer in my heart that I have no plan to settle down and build a family in near. I only look forward to find dream lady to live forever and not think about marriage, that is the point and my concept so far.
To prepare a family planning before marriage is important point. My uncle said that a man is allowed to marriage even he didn’t know how to be a good husband and father for family, because when he has already been husband and father (married man), his mind and brain will be opened naturally. Most of my cousins married by accident (MBA) have kid before walking in holy altar and they are settled now, they learn how to be a wife from their friends, books even live practices.
As men, there are rules we have to know before decide to find a partner to live forever in happiness and sadness, good and bad and bla bla bla. I will question you with the same question; do you have potential financial to buy a home when you are married man?
admin | January 5, 2009 | 2:19 am
If you don’t love your parents when they grow elder, how about you when you become elder?
We are younger, productive and able to care our self. We may need an assistance at home to help us in kitchen or to share our daily activity at home, care our home, care our child when we were out or to care our mom and dad who have entered to twilight zone.
This section, I would like to focus on assistance, an elder-maid for our parents. We love our parent as well as they love us and we always want and wish that they are happier. A nursing for elder at home is good decision if less time you have. But the weakness is parents couldn’t do activity because no friends (their twilight zone community). So Nursing home is better choice for them.
Nursing home become trend because in there they feel better, better treatment from experts, but we must choice the right nursing homes for them, we must do necessary action to make us sure that our parents are in right hand.
Nurses are human and they also have bad mood, tired or anything else. Everyday they associate with elders, care elders, talk to elders even to be elder their self. So as the human, sometimes they are angry, become crazy or do unnecessary thing to elders. It is natural.
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